My Reply: "Why shouldn't birth control be free?"
Maybe because birth control doesn’t just fall from trees.
No, wait, actually, there is some free birth control. It’s called ABSTINENCE.
Students here can generic BC pills here for 9 dollars without insurance. There is a small pharmacy that has good…
You said:
Condoms really do take away from the experience, not every guy is willing to use one, I know one couple who despite my warnings continued to not use any.
Then don’t you think if it’s a woman’s body and a woman’s choice. She can say no if they won’t use a condom? And if she does decide to go ahead with it is no one else’s fault but her own, as she could have insisted on the condom or stopped altogether. I know many friends of mine who are girls and do just that. Sex is just like alcohol, you have to be responsible. You can’t blame the alcohol for the accident. You blame the person who drank the alcohol.
Furthermore ever heard of thin condoms or that? “For his-pleasure” some of these condoms you can barely tell the difference.
Yes, she was dumb for not saying no, I’m not trying to relieve her of any blame and put it all on him in anyway, she’s just as responsible, sorry if it seemed like that. I know a few friends who stopped things too, and they did the right thing, they’re probably even in the majority. But I disagree and I think it’s also his fault as well. If he wouldn’t use one and that meant she didn’t get to have sex, which I know, knowing him, he would have given in and worn the condom, but if she didn’t think he’d give in or knowing that he didn’t have any with him and thought that making him wear a condom would mean she didn’t get to have sex for who knows how long then she might have given in to his pressure. I mean, she should have said no, but he shouldn’t have put that pressure on her in the first place either. I feel like they’re both at fault here, just like girls can pressure guys into wearing condoms, guys can pressure girls into not making them wear them. Libido is a powerful thing and I think everyone should resist it and do the right thing, what I’m saying is that realistically not everyone will, hence why BC is good - it accounts for those “I can’t wait any longer I have to have you now!” moments. Which I speak from experience when I say they happen. I did something really dumb a year ago and ended up having to pay up for plan B, and I regret the mistake and I now keep condoms of my own handy in case the situation ever occurs again, I learned my lesson. But had I not been able to afford the plan B I could have very well found my self in pickle. Properly taken birth control could have saved me in that situation.
The problem with your argument is that you’re comparing men to alcohol. Men are not some substance that women abuse that have no choice in the matter. They can be prepared and responsible just like women. The other problem with both our arguments is that sometimes this stuff happens unexpectedly - I didn’t blame the guy who didn’t bring a condom because neither of us planned what happened. We were friends, but we weren’t in a relationship, or even all that romantically interested in the other. We were both at fault for being irresponsible. I’m in control of my body and I could have said no - but he’s in control of his body and even though I said yes he still could have said no.
And I’ve heard of them, and I would highly recommend women with obstinate men stockpiling some. Though some guys are stubborn and will insist that even the thin ones aren’t good enough. And if that’s the case then I recommend they help their women out with her BC instead of complaining.


